Hello guys, I am new to this passport bro lifestyle and have many questions. Before I get into all that, I have a few things I’d like to say about myself. I am an American guy, mid 20’s, Caucasian, 6’ 2”, 195lbs and a Christian. I like living a rural lifestyle or living somewhat off grid. I am also about to have my bachelor degree and start my career. My ideal woman is one who is Asian, has a beautiful accent and is a Christian as well.

I like the idea of getting a foreign bride and I have a friend who has done the same and is happy about his fiancée but not too happy about all of the paper work involved in the process. He’s American and she’s Chinese. I myself am not bothered by waiting and paperwork, but my job won’t pay well at first but it will take time to make some decent income. I probably won’t be making a 6 figure salary but definitely a higher 5 figure salary after a few years. I plan to make passive income and do side hustles to drum up some supplementation to my paychecks. If or when I decide to travel, I plan to go with a group other men to either Japan or the Philippines. I also cannot live in another country because of my job. I have even thought about talking to foreign women here in the US.

I know several of you guys will say “don’t date women in the US. Feminism and western ideas!” and I hear you. After seeing my parent’s divorce, I am all too cautious of the matter. However, if it means that I can date and marry a traditional Asian lady here in the US versus paying a lot of money to travel and do paper work to get a wife from overseas then I will take the less complicated option.

I am looking for a woman who is traditional and is willing to care for my children along with helping me raise them to be honest Godly individuals. I would love nothing more than to show my future sons how to do outdoors things and teach my daughters what to look for when they are ready to find their better halves.

So now you know more about me, let’s get into the crux of my post.

1.       How can I date women in my own country? There is a population of Burmese and some Thai women in my local area. However, I have researched into Burmese/Myanmar culture and it’s a coin toss chance they’ll date interracially. I am not sure about Thai customs.

2.       If I decide to travel and meet a wife, which country should I look for women? Japan or Philippines? Personally, I think Japanese women are prettier but Filipinas have much better Christian values.

3.       How can I bring a foreign bride back to the US and avoid any corruptions of western ideals? Specifically, what can cut down on the wait time and costs? Again, many of you will tell me this is a bad idea but this is my only option. I have heard many stories of men who have done this and turned out fine but there are always 2 horror stories for 1 success story.

4.       What are some red flags I should look for talking to a woman online? Obvious ones are high notch count, promiscuous pics, asking for money, daddy issues and man hating. I plan to talk to a girl online first, visit the nation (get evidence of a legit relationship while I’m there) and bring her here.

5.       How can I vet for someone (online or in person) that won’t turn from a traditional wife to a feminist? I have heard experiences where guys have brought their foreign wives to the US and they turn into angry spiteful women by their new coworkers/peers. I believe this because it happened during my parent’s divorce.

6.       How can I set reasonable boundaries? IE when we can talk and how we can sync our schedules to talk to each other? The last time I tried talking to a foreign lady online, I took her offsite and talked via social media. She got more invested in the relationship than me and became way too clingy so I had to end things. It was painful but we’re better off seeing other people.